i don't think i can take this anymore. She is acting cold to me again. Not answering my call, doesn't want to reply my msg. I am fine with that. I know her decision now. I am sensitive. I know smt is happening on her side. If i remain her second option, so be it. Really heartbroken by the way she treats me. Hot and cold. The same with Sharina, and now with her. Guess with these 2 girls, I am the weak one.

I deleted her from my list as I dont want to disturb her anymore but i doubt myself. how long can i stand not to msg her. I am weak here. but as day pass by, I believe I can overcome that. Can feel she's ignoring my call. I am growing tired with these kind of things. Can i just have a break.

I always believe this is part of my karma. I might think she's the only one for me, but in the end, guess i'm wrong. I am not who she wants. I am never the person she wants. I always remember she said she will never play around with love, well she did. Sweet words can stay forever. It is meant for coating purpose. It will degrade.

Juliet told me not to be angry or hate someone, instead be happy. I am trying. trying to be happy and trying to get her out of my mind. It will be really tough. I wanted a life with her. Things didn't work out the way I wanted it to be.

Always tell myself, life is too short to worry on such thing. Live life to the fullest. Eventually, guess i will grow tired with relationship and just want to be single. Girls that I love will never end up with me. That's just life to me. Sounds bitter from me. Each and everyone life are different. Some might find their the one, some might not. And I fall into the unfortunate category.

Think it another way, the unfortunate might works my way too. Financially, am i really good enough to be in relationship? Is Jestina good enough for me? I can raise a lot of questions here. I know all these are for self satisfaction because only with that way, I can get rid of her.

Hot and cold treatment, I am tired of it. Guess in relationship, everyone has to pass through it. like it or not, you have to overcome it. I try very hard to overcome it. Initially, believing that if I really want something, it will materialise, guess some things like love, it wont works that way. As much as I want her, I mean nothing to her.

She can just forget about me that easy. I feel bad if I ignore her. This always comes in my mind, appreciate people that treasure us. Some friends take things for granted, friends like that, we can ignore. She might take me for granted, but to other friends, she might not be. It is the same to me. Some friends think I take things for granted, so they ignored me.

I want to meet her before I go to Phuket. She is avoiding me. Just told Juliet, Happy moments won't last forever. Treasure it while you are still experiencing it. because you won't know, next seconds, that moment will disappear. I believe this so much now. When Jestina is good to me, appreciate that moment, treasure it. because the next hour, things will turn cold. always bear in mind that, she might take you just to fill in her time. By adopting 'appreciate every happy moments that happen" I believe my life would be more simple.

Writing this relieve me a lot. I don't like to keep this with me forever. I believe i made the right decision. I am really tired of being treated that way. DO i deserve this? I have no answer. but I felt better expressing myself here.

Find friends that appreciate us. Friends that take things for granted, we can just ignore them. life is too short to fill them in. There are a lot of happy things awaiting us in front. I believe.

Good night. 1.19am

#8: Final Message

Jestina: i guess i was more comfortable talking to you casually as a friend
i like you and i don't want to hurt you by telling lies
before it is too late
I didn't filter or sugar coat anything i told you just now, straight from my heart how am I feeling


Jestina: is like us being in a relationship but i don't feel like it
i don't feel comfortable, and i guess I am not ready for one at this moment


Jestina: i guess the thing is, nothing really happen
we just don't really talk
or i shall say I don't really talk
because i don't know what talk to you
and work have been keeping me busy
and the thing is that, i don't have the urge

#7: Jestina's reminder.

Please don't let me dislike talking to you
Please don't let me begin ignoring you
Please don't let me look down on you by how you behave
Please don't let me loose my respect towards you
Please don't let me have the feeling of frustration when I see you
Please don't let me get irritated when you ask really dumb questions
Please don't let me have so many chances to raise my voice against you
Please don't let me think that you are the black sheep among others
Please don't let me repeat things which had been repeated a thousand times
Please don't let me stop saying hi to you
Please don't let me think that talking to you is such suffering and wasting time


Just you know who you are... Please don't... I'm getting real sick...

#6: I will remember her forever. She stays in my memory.

I felt like she's avoiding me. Whenever I asked her out, she will put me to the last. Her friends are more important than me. I think I received her message clearly. She wants to break up with me but she don't want to say that. Initially, I planned to wait till she say that, but now I think I no longer will do that.

Ladies will always feel reluctant to say that words. I have no idea why. I don't think I'm important to her anymore. Maybe not even as friend anymore. She never ask for my news. I told myself not to upset with that. But I think I'm actually hiding from the fact that she no longer like me. Forcing her to cling on to this relationship is really selfish. I will let her go and let her find her ideal partner. I never is her ideal partner. I wanted her badly but when things are not ours, we should learn how to leave it. Forcing one means no real happiness.

I told her that I wanted to visit her on Sunday before I left for Melaka. But when comes Sunday, she told me maybe we can't meet. She got an appointment with her friend that she promised to meet long ago. Just now, when I wanted to call her, she didn't pick up my call, she said she's in a dinner. Well, things changed dramatically. A few hours later, I text her again, asking whether she finish her dinner. She replied she was resting, tired. If anything, what's app her. Add in the fact that I didn't meet her for more than a week already, she didn't even anticipate my call, leave alone meeting me.

I just want to repair our relationship before it go further and damage our friendship. I still want to remain as her best friends if possible. Or maybe as friend. We are not meant to be a couple, but I don't want to lose a friend. I can see the trend that she's avoiding me. She doesn't need to do that. We can still be friends. If she did those cold respond to me on purpose, then blame me for asking for that. I am the one to ask to continue this relationship. If she didn't do it on purpose, then too bad, things just didn't work out for us, cause I don't think that's an appropriate way to treat your bf or friends. I believe she don't want to go to this stage as well.

Jestina is really a good gf, Whoever that manage to win her heart is the luckiest guy in this world. I can guarantee that. I am not the lucky one. But the amount of happy time that we manage to spent together, I really treasured it a lot. I will remember her forever. She is so special to me. Sweet, cute, active and independent. She has what I want in a gf. No surprise to see lots of guys going after her. She is every guy dream girl.

Jestina, time that we manage to spent together, I will remember it. I hope you will manage to find a nice partner for yourself. I hope you will say yes to us becoming best friends. I will still go after you Jestina.

Jestina, I enjoyed the time we spent together.

#5: Maybe I need to grow stronger.

Friends told me, if you care for her too much, they will try to get over your head. I slowly begin to believe this. Not with Jestina. I did not even try to climb on top of mine. She warned me before. It's me who want to be treated that way. Blame no one other than myself. I ask for this, I got it. She doesn't look happy when she met me last night. Up until a point where both of us got nothing to talk in the car. I'm glad her face changed to happy one after I show her the book. At least I know she can still smile. It's been a while since I saw her smile happily. I always tell myself maybe I think too much. She might be tired due to her throat. I hope that's true. Cause so far I can't see any commitment from her. 

She never ask anything on me. When I ask her bout her stuff, what I get is simple answer. That's all. She will only answer my question. If compare to last time, she will still tell me something. I accept that things will always change, but I never expect it to change so fast. I will keep going after her. Everything is back to zero for me. I need to win back her heart. I'm constantly learning all the way. My question is if she's not into me, why can't she just tell me she wants to break up. It will save her time and she won't need to meet my face anymore. I don't think she's looking forward meeting me. Things won't remain like how it is now for long. It will come a time when I can no longer provide care and attention for her anymore. 

Be brave enough to accept that some things aren't meant to be. Letting go takes courage. You gotta allow yourself to grow stronger. 

Jestina, I would love to see your sweet smile again

#4: Am I thinking too much?

I don't know what to talk to her. Her reply doesn't seems convincing. I don't know hot to continue the conversation from her reply. IS she avoiding me lately. Might be. I want to visit her tonight, hoping to see how is she now and to give her the book, but she said maybe she will sleep already by the time I visit her.

i scared i sleep dy haha

nvm lah not really have to be tonight

if u have things to do u shud go ahead

Message like that is so discouraging. What goes into my mind is tonight there we won't meet up. we'll only know tonight the result. But what make me so confident that she doesn't want to meet up? She is just way to nice to reject a person. She just put thing in a nicer way. You may say I think too much but I might be right as well. I don't think she wants to meet me.

If she really dislike me already, I won't want to keep bugging her like that. I know that is very annoying cause I won't want others to do that on me. I hold tight to the belief that

Be brave enough to accept that some things aren't meant to be. Letting go takes courage. You gotta allow yourself to grow stronger. 

and to this as well, 

If u ever find someone u really like, fight like hell to get them; Once u get them, fight like hell to keep them!

Both statement are contradicting. One advice us to let go when things are no longer ours, another urged us to fight for our love. Which one am I doing right now? I choose to fight. I will fight like hell to win her heart. 

If u don't like someone, might as well tell that person instead of lying to him/her everyday. Truth may hurt, but lies hurt WAY more

Then again, I believe it is worth fighting to get her heart. She is worth every sacrifice that I made. I always remind myself on , 

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!

Don't expect love in return; 
Just wait for it to grow in their heart,
But if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

She might not be giving me any love right now, that shouldn't stop me from giving her love. I need to constantly remind myself that NEVER EVER expect any love from her. She owe me nothing even if she is my girlfriend. Without a strong mind, I will hate her for not returning the love. Let's face it, who am I anyway to expect that from her. Constantly I remind myself Don't expect love in return. I am still unsure how long I need to convince myself doing this.

Jestina, please, give me a chance to make your life better. Together, we can make it.

#3: Her blog used to be more about herself. No more on that now.

I browse through her blog up till year 2009. Major difference that I can spotted is her blog used to be cheerful and she used to blog a lot about herself. Now, she didn't do that anymore. Her recent post is more "negative". She kept everything to only herself. Her latest one:     

                                  
                                                       If you happen to find my heart, 

Can you help me to keep it in a safe box,

Safe from others who wants to hurt it badly,

Because if I ever have it back,

I might hand it over to the same person,

Whom I know, he will hurt it over and over again.

I want to be the stranger that she mentioned to keep her heart. Don't know what's playing in her mind. Was she still thinking of her ex? Giving him another chance? I hope she can think wise and never give her ex any chance anymore. Enough with the scars and bruises that she got from the bastard. My wish at here alone is worthless if she didn't work her way forward. I want to see her happy. Enough of the ex.

She did mentioned in one of her post, on her requirement for her bf,

Someone who is mature, stable, caring, and loving - high standards?

Don't think so... Let's see what are the no no characters I won't get attracted to...

I can't take guys with childish character, and thinks he knows everything but just living in a nutshell.

I don't quite admire guys who just live their life each day and not plan for a future.

I don't like guys who mask a lot, it doesn't look good when I find out the person behind it.

I don't like guys who boast about nothing but himself - Hate it when someone is always full of himself...

 I really don't know whether I have any of the traits mentioned. Am I childish, I am sometime. Well I guess all of us will still have the lil kid in us even though we are adults now. Do I plan for my future? I did. Do I mask myself? I did. Depending on the situation. We have to carry certain image in certain function. I am a guy with humours, you won't want me to joke all the way while I'm delivering my speech! 

In short, those are the requirements by all the girls. Of course we want a perfect couple but some find it really difficult to understand why they never meet their prince charming. You will NEVER find your prince charming that tick all the requirements. No on is perfect in this world. 

I always believe Jestina is a really good gf. I am really lucky to have met her. And she is my gf now. Still it is not a intimate relationship between us. There is still something big that pull her back from committing to this relationship. What is the big rock here, I am trying to find out. I always think I might be the big rock myself. If that's the case, I'll be really sad to remove myself from the picture.

I noticed she went to Bkt Cahaya to cycle last time. Now let me google on that. Having the memory back might not be a bad idea after all.

There goes the list for guys that attracts her,

Let me list down some of the ways you can get girls around you, well at least these attracts me...

1. Your killer suit (Suit you put charm on it)
2. Your stylish hairstyle
3. Your killer smile
4. Your skill of sweet talking
5. Your skill in instruments
6. Your personality - Down to earth prince charming
7. Your dance moves
8. Your way of being shy when you get compliments
9. Your way of looking
10. And if you know beat boxing

She told me this before,  fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me

Her huge interest in i have this huge love for German Shepherd

 Extracted from one of her posts,

How is it like to have a boyfriend?
How is it like to hold hands and hug each other while doing simple window shopping?
How is it like when you felt like crying and there is a shoulder for you to rely on?
How is it like when you can openly talk about the sweetest things you both did with everyone?
How is it like to have him mention about you being the most precious without taking into considerations?

 Right now, I am wondering How is it like when you can openly talk about the sweetest things you both did with everyone? I want to get her back to herself normal self so badly. I want to make her feel what is it like to have a bf. She can have my shoulder to cry on whenever she wants to. I want to hug and kiss her everyday. It might be a dream now, but I cherish for it to happen.

I am a sucker for needles lah

I just love horror movies

Jestina, you deserve better than what you are experiencing now. 

#2: Surprise didn't really works. She's still not feeling well.

20th June 2011

Surprise to give her anniversary card didn't really works. Guess her parents or brother saw the card on the car wiper and carry it to her room. Waiting for her message straight after I open my eyes in the morning. She didn't message me on that. I have to try harder next time.

She still did not feel well, coughing gotten worst. Sleepy in office after taking medicine from doctor. I am so glad to hear she is taking half day leave to back home and rest. She should. I think she is pushing herself too much that her body can't take it anymore. She knows about that, but she cannot help. That's Jestina, devoted to her job. Sacrificing her health, ignoring it, clients and work always beyond herself.

It will be a challenge to convince her to get enough rest before she resumes her work. I don't want to sound like I'm nagging her, but when I see her in such condition, I really hope I can help her or at least make her feel better. Listening to her voice while talking to her, make me wanting to visit her more. I really miss her. I message her that I miss her last night, but there's no reply from her.

Talking to my friends on my situation helps a lot. I need their support badly. Juliet told me, a bf is not someone to rely on. A bf is someone who is gonna pamper your make your days happier event hough you are already happy. A bf is never a person you hold on to cause you have a problem. He is the one that shares everything with you through thick and thin. I believe in that.

My brother asked me why I love her so much this morning. I paused a while. The image of Jestina smiling comes to my mind clearly. The answer is simple, Jestina is a nice lady to talk to. She's caring. I'm holding on to the belief that she can be a wonderful gf is she's is committed to the relationship. She doesn't deserve to be like what she is now. I don't think she wants that life. If I'm not her lucky one, at least I try to change her. I really want to see her smiling everyday. She deserves that.

This Tuesday is suppose to be our dinner but I don't think she can make it. I can't make it as well, dinner with MA3 and managers. I really want to visit her. She said she don't expect anyone to take care of her when she's not feeling well. I never expect that in her with her personalities, but I still want to do that.

Jestina, you mean a lot to me.

#1: 1st month anniversary card.

I can be tough with my mind. We can overcome everything when our mind is strong. The only thing that can hurt me so badly is love, the greatest weapon in the earth. Those who choose to play with feeling must be the greatest bastard in the world. No thanks to them, girls are scared of having another relationship. Pure bastard!

My relationship with her didn't go on smooth. Things started to crack since the second week. I confronted her because I was really concern about our relationship. It seems that she is still not ready to start a new relationship. From what I observed, the main problem lies in her character for being independent. She doesn't need a bf right now. She was sorry that she agreed to be my gf when she's still wasn't ready.

I never blame her for that. I don't want that to happen as well. I admit, I'm suffering when my gf treated me like that. I kind of felt she's a bit cold towards me. The intimacy is no longer there. We used to be close, we used to smile to each others when we met and we used to enjoy each other presence. It is no longer there. Those were only memories now. Things changed. Things are never the same again now.

I can feel that the excitement when meeting me is no longer there. Sometime, I felt she's avoiding me. Well, maybe I think too much. I hope I'm wrong. I really do. I believe she can be a very good gf when she really committed to a person. I can see that in her, a very caring gf. That explains why I will try to convince her to change her character. Sometimes, I do think her character is not the main issue here. The problem might lies in me. I might not be the right person that she wants in her man. Again, I have no complain to that purely because I really have nothing to be proud of currently. Given the time, I trust myself more than any other creatures in this land that I can be a success. Everything takes time. proving to her that I am the right person takes time as well.

I think her feeling towards me can degrade so fast due to the fact that we have nothing special to cling on. There's nothing special in our relationship. It not her fault when she thinks that way. She really got nothing special to cling on in this relationship. But to me, she is the special one. I treasure her like she's really my sweetie. I love being with her and I hope slowly she will feel the same way towards me.

I want to write this post because I want to jot down everything that involve her in my life. My time that I spent with her is never a boring moment for me. Its really relaxing looking at her smile. I know I don't have a good memory. I need this mini diary to help me to refresh all the moment that both of us manage to have, be it a happy moment or the other way.

I just sent our 1st Month Anniversary card to her house. I wanted to give her a surprise with the card. 19th May 2011 is the date that I will always remember as the date she accepted my proposal to be my girlfriend. I can never forget that moment when we were in the car. How she will react to the card, I have no idea. I hope she will like it. I put it on her Swift windscreen, clipped by her wiper. Hopefully, wind won't blow the card away. I am really looking forward to see what's her reaction tomorrow after reading the card.

Unsure whether she remember our anniversary is on 19th May. Not a surprise if she really didn't remember it. I am still her no one. Those experience will push me to make myself her someone.

Jestina, I love you.

Oldest TV set in Britain: Built in 1936... and it's only had two careful owners

For £5,000 you might have expected a bigger, flatter screen.

But this television does come with 75 years of broadcasting history – and you can still hook it up to a Freeview box.

Built in 1936, the Marconi type-702 is the oldest working television set in Britain.

It was bought for just under £100 only three weeks after transmissions in Britain began. And with just one channel broadcasting for two hours a day, there wasn’t much need for a remote control.

But what the television lacks in modern technology, it makes up for in reliability. Only 30 per cent of its components have been replaced during its lifetime, all with identical parts.

The 75-year-old set has a 12in screen contained in a walnut and mahogany case, with the picture reflected on to a mirror for the viewer to look at.

It is now being auctioned along with its original invoice, made out to a Mr G. B. Davis of Dulwich.

Unfortunately for Mr Davis, his viewing was cut short when the local transmitter burned down just three days after he bought the set on November 26, and his area could not receive pictures again for ten years.

The TV has a pre-sale estimate of £5,000, but experts at Bonhams expect it to fetch much more. It cost Mr Davis £99 and 15 shillings 0d – more than half the annual average wage at the time and equivalent to almost £4,000 today. 

Its serial number is H1007, and it is thought the sequence began at 1,000, making it number 007.

Bonhams specialist Laurence Fisher said: ‘This is being sold by the late owner’s family and is the oldest working TV set in Britain.

‘Its case is made from walnut and mahogany to give a two-tone effect and doesn’t have wheels and is quite a big lump.

‘The picture is reflected on to its lid and at the time it was bought there was only one channel. Unfortunately for the original owner, three days after he bought it the Crystal Palace burned down and that was where the transmitter was.

‘His area did not receive pictures again until after the war. But at least people who visited him would know he had [a television], even if he couldn’t use it.

‘Most programmes at the time would be live and there were plays which were grand productions like you would have at the theatre.’

But as revealed by the listings above, from the day the television was purchased, the same programmes were often shown twice a day – proving that frequent repeats are not a recent invention.

Deep sea treasure: 17th century gold chain worth $250,000 plucked from ocean bed

A deep sea diver has struck gold after unearthing a 17th century chain worth $250,000 from the ocean floor.

Bill Burt, a diver for Mel Fisher's Treasures, spotted the 40-inch gold chain while looking for the wrecked Nuestra Senora de Atocha, which sank off the Florida Keys in a 1622 hurricane.

Shipwreck experts have tentatively valued the piece at around $250,000.

The chain has 55 links, an enamelled gold cross and a two-sided engraved religious medallion featuring the Virgin Mary and a chalice.

On the edges of the cross there is engraved wording thought to be in Latin.

Andy Matroci, captain of Mel Fisher's Treasures salvage vessel, JB Magruder, said the crew had been diving at the North end of the Atocha trail.

On their last trip to the wreck they uncovered 22 silver coins and a cannon ball just east of the site.

They had been hoping to find more coins in the area, Mr Matroci said, but instead found the chain.

'In the nine years I have been running this boat this is the most unique artefact we have brought up,' Mr Matroci said.

The piece is believed to be from the Atocha's infamous treasure trove.

The company has uncovered half a billion dollars in historic artefacts, gold, silver and emeralds since they began diving the wreck in 1969.

In 1985 - after 15 years of searching - the Fisher crew discovered Atocha's 'mother lode', worth more than $450million.

They unearthed thousands of artefacts, silver coins, gold coins - many in near mint condition, exquisite jewellery sets with precious stones, gold chains, disks, a variety of armaments and even seeds, which later sprouted.

They then faced a legal wrangle with the U.S. Government claimed title to the wreck. Florida state officials seized many of the items the Fisher crew had retrieved.

But after eight years of litigation, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in Fisher's favour.

The contents of the ships sterncastle - a wooden, fort-shaped area at the back of ship, have never been recovered.

This is where the wealthy passengers, including nobility and clergy, would have stayed.

Fisher's estimates the treasure in the sterncastle section is worth in the region of half a billion dollars.

The latest find was likely owned by a member of the clergy indicating the company's search for the missing treasure trove could be getting nearer.

'Mr Elastic' goes for Guinness world record with his incredible bendy feet

Moses Lanham plans on stepping into the record books in a rather unusual fashion.

'Known as backwards feet man' and 'Mr elastic', the Michigan based 49-year-old can rotate his feet 120 degrees behind him, a feat he hopes will earn him a place in the Guinness Book of Records.

As that's not all; he also plans on setting a record for the fastest man to walk 20 metres with his feet turned backwards.

Despite the daunting task ahead, Mr Lanham can however remain quietly confident - both records have never been attempted before.

Speaking to AOL News, Mr Lanham said: 'I know I can put my toes together in back, but for the record, I'll do a full 120 degrees.'

Despite the visually excruciating appearance, Mr Lanham says his flexible feet cause him no pain, in fact he quite enjoys the back-to-front feeling.

'A lot of times when I'm sitting down I'll put my feet in a twisted position because it's more comfortable for me,' he said.

Mr Lanham discovered his strange quirk at 14 after a high school gym class accident.

Climbing a rope, he lost his grip and fell nearly 18 feet before landing with his feet in an extremely awkward position.

'They thought something was dislocated,' Mr Lanham said. 'But I stood up and was fine.'

Mr Lanham has made the most of his talent ever since.

In high school he was prone to walking backwards and at college he would wear his clothes backwards to match the direction of his feet.

Sadly, Mr Lanham's 17-year-old son Trey has only partially inherited his father's funny feet.

Trey can not turn them the full way round like his father, and also feels pain after staying in the position for a short time.

'It's a shame because I was hoping I could retire and be his manager,' Mr Lanham added.

Doctors who have examined Mr Lanham say he was born with extra tissue and cartilage in his joints, making his hips, knees and ankles especially elastic.

There are no records of anyone else in the family, apart from Trey, having the condition.

His perculiar talent has also gained him national notoriety after he appeared on 'Candid Camera', 'Ripley's Believe It or Not!', 'America's Funniest Home Videos', 'Jimmy Kimmel Live' and the Discovery Channel's 'Medical Incredible'.

Britain's biggest ever baby girl welcomed to the world in just six hours weighing 12lbs 8oz

A woman has given birth to the biggest ever baby girl, coming in at a whopping 12lbs 8oz.

Pictured here next to her cousin Thomas - who is actually younger than her - baby Libby, from Wigan, is twice the size of the average newborn.

The youngster, who has three older brothers, was born after a surprisingly short labour of just six hours.

Mum and dad Gemma and Ian Woods were over the moon to finally have a long-awaited daughter in their family but weren't quite expecting such a large baby.

Not only was it a relatively short labour, but brave mum Gemma, 28, had a natural birth and opted only for gas and air pain relief.

'I just couldn't believe it when the midwife told me the weight - I thought I was hearing things,' she told the Sunday Mirror.

'When she was two weeks old we took a photograph of her next to my nephew Thomas, who was born three weeks early.

'He weighted 6lb 13oz - and she absolutely dwarfed him.'

The heaviest baby ever born was in January 1979 when Anna Bates gave birth in Ohio to a boy that weighed 23lb 12ozs but he died 11 hours later.

The heaviest surviving newborn was in Aversa, Italy, in September 1955 which weighed 22lb 8oz.

The three-year-old who weighs a whopping nine-and-a-half stone

At 132lbs, Lu Hao is already five times the size of a normal child his age.

The three-year-old toddler from China eats a staggering THREE bowls of rice when he sits down for a family meal.

When Lu Hao was born he weighed just 2.6kg (5.7 lbs), however, from the time he was three months old he began to gain weight rapidly.

'His appetite is so good that for a meal he can eat 3 big bowls of rice, even larger than I and his mother,' said Hao's father Lu Yuncheng.

Since Hao was one-year-old his parents have tried to keep a careful eye on his diet.

However, Hao's mother Chen Yuan comments: 'We have to let him be as if we don't feed him he will cry non-stop'.

No matter how hard the family restricts Hao's diet and pushes him to move more the toddler has still managed to put on 10kg (22 lbs) in the past year.

Now Chen Yuan is unable to pick her son up.

'In both of our families, there was no such giant person,' said father Yuncheng.

Hao hates walking and each day his mother takes him to kindergarten on a motorcycle.

'He is quite happy that I could ride him to kindergarten instead of walking him there,' said Yuan.

Hao has many toys at home but his favourite is Superman because, he says, 'Superman can fly and beat bad men!'

When asked is he would like to fly like Superman Hao giggles and replies: 'No. I am too fat'.

To push Hao to do more sports, the family installed a basketball hoop in the yard and often take him to swim in a local river.

But the exercise just make him hungrier and results in him putting on more weight.

'We took him to three hospitals and one said he has a tumor in the head, while the other two said there is no tumour in the head,' said Yuncheng.

'Doctors said his hormones are at a normal level. It's hard to know why he could be so big.'

'We now worry the most about his health. As if he continues to grow at this rate his heart could fail,' said Yuan.

They also worry that when he gets older and more aware of his weight Hao will be bullied.

'Our biggest hope is one day Hao could get slim,' said Chen.